“Oh my, God, he’s HUGE!!!” gasped my 29 year-old son at his first sight of my recently acquired rescue horse, Reddy.
In October of 2007, based on a photo of a good-looking horse with a kind eye, I adopted a 15-to-17 year old gelding of unknown origins. It is a gross understatement to say that this was not one of the most sensible moves I’d ever made in my life. The situation gets even more bizarre when you consider that I had been taking riding lessons for only 4 months and had never owned a horse.
To top it all, there turned out to be a typo in the ad: The thoroughbred-quarter horse mix was allegedly 15-2 hands. Imagine my surprise after the glow of our mutually “love at first sight meeting” wore off and it dawned on me that Reddy was substantially larger than I had anticipated. He was closer to being 16-2, a somewhat daunting size for a 57-year old woman who is at most 5’2” and about 140 lbs.
Thanks to a caution from the rescue group that Reddy was a nice horse but not familiar with riding cues, I made the first sensible decision since beginning my journey into horse ownership: I was not going to try to ride the huge fellow until I knew he was safe to ride.
I had no history of what Reddy had been through but because he was on his way to slaughter when he was rescued, I assumed his most recent past couldn’t have been very good. Given that, I wanted a trainer who was patient, quiet, and gentle, but who could also take command and be humanely firm when Reddy got a little pushy. I needed someone who could teach me now to gain his respect and transform his view of me from a nice little old “push-over” lady who spoils him into one of looking to me as his loving guide and leader.
The person who was able to do this turned out to be Shannon King.
When Shannon did her initial assessment of Reddy on July 1, 2008, I was completely blown away. She connected with him immediately and he responded to Shannon better than anyone else who had tried to work with him. By the end of an hour, his respect, trust and focus far exceeded that of any other training session I had witnessed. Not only that, Shannon also made several positive remarks about Reddy’s worth and potential.
I always had a gut feeling that Reddy was a diamond in the rough and that with the right trainer, someday he would shine. However, a gauntlet of mixed reactions about him from people more experienced with horses had me doubting myself. Their characterizations included: attention deficit, not too bright, dangerous, unpredictable, calm with potential of becoming a training horse, and smart with tremendous try. It was a huge affirmation of my faith in Reddy to hear such a positive assessment from Shannon, who is a well-respected equestrian in her field.
Within a few weeks, Shannon was riding Reddy and I was able to get on him for my first brief ride in August. Shannon figured out that Reddy had never been taught how to be ridden. He had apparently been used as a pack horse, which explained his stillness and the fact that he could not be startled easily.
Tuesday, Dec. 16, 2008 will forever be etched in my heart as the day when I had my first “real” ride on Reddy. He did everything I asked him to do which included: walking forward, stopping, backing up, turning, and trotting.
Shannon is helping me build upon the strong, loving bond between Reddy and me that was there right from the beginning. Our ultimate goal is not to “break” Reddy, but rather, to keep his kind, wise, brave and curious spirit in tact while we make sure he is well-trained and safe to ride. Shannon strives for excellence so I am confident that will we become the best horse-human team that we can possibly be.
I am so thankful that Shannon was willing to work with a 17 year old “green” horse and a 58 year old green rider because I have observed her work with others and am in awe of her horsemanship skills. I still don’t know as much as I need to know about horses and riding for me to leave the safe harbor of the Horse2Human program. What I do know though, is that as far as learning about the “way of the horse,” I could search far and wide and never find a better mentor than Shannon King.